In September I wrote a short story about random acts of kindness. Follow this link for the tale and for some detail on the TwentyFour Stories project; a significant act of kindness indeed. https://www.abctales.com/story/gletherby/random-acts
For World Kindness Day (13thNovember) I decided to develop the story of one of the characters in my original tale a little further. Also, in my mind, as I was writing were various articles I have read suggesting that loneliness in the UK is becoming an epidemic. In 2012 Patrick Butler wrote of the link between austerity, isolation and loneliness:
For World Kindness Day (13thNovember) I decided to develop the story of one of the characters in my original tale a little further. Also, in my mind, as I was writing were various articles I have read suggesting that loneliness in the UK is becoming an epidemic. In 2012 Patrick Butler wrote of the link between austerity, isolation and loneliness:
We suspected austerity was
going to be bad, but we didn't know how bad. Now, as services are withdrawn and
benefit changes come into force, we are beginning to find out…. Researchers
interviewed more than 70 vulnerable people living in the borough [of Camden],
focusing on three groups: disabled residents and carers; young people; and
families on low incomes….
A disturbing theme to
emerge was the prevalence of fear and uncertainty. Words such as
"isolation," and "loneliness" recur, especially in relation
to families with children aged under five, and disabled people
"trapped" at home by cuts. The threat of being uprooted from the
borough (which has the fourth highest private sector housing rents in the UK)
by housing benefit caps provoked terror. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2012/jul/17/despair-loneliness-austerity-britain
Here then the argument is that austerity can lead to loneliness (along with other material, social and emotional inequalities). More recently others have written about this with reference to the lack of and impact on essential services. Here is a quote from an anonymously authored piece on the importance
of libraries (many of which are currently under threat of closure):
… libraries are so much more than books. They have ebooks,
audio books, academic journals, online resources, online driving tests,
genealogy research. They play host to art classes, carpet bowls, tea dances,
cafes, dementia support sessions. They provide a space for carers to meet, and
people to be part of a community when they may otherwise be socially isolated.
I’ve lost count of the number of customers who have told me, “You are the only
person I have spoken to all day”. https://www.theguardian.com/public-leaders-network/2016/feb/06/library-visitors-austerity-job-applications-loneliness
And here some quotes from an article on the significance of loneliness both to our health and wellbeing and to the current pressure that the NHS is under:
The estimated 1.1
million Britons to be lonely are 50% more likely to die prematurely than people
with a good social network….
“Social isolation and loneliness are akin to a
chronic long-term condition in terms of the impact they have on our patients’
health and wellbeing,” ....
“GPs see patients, many of whom are widowed, who have multiple health
problems like diabetes, hypertension and depression, but often their main
problem isn’t medical, [it’s that] they’re lonely.” ….
“Loneliness can
sometime be the face of more serious underlying issues and should not be
disregarded as a minor problem. GPs should be alert to any underlying mental
health problems such as depression,” said Caroline Abraham, Age UK’s charity
director. GPs should do more to direct lonely people to services that can
support them, she added.
NHS England agreed
with the RCGP chief that GPs spending time with lonely people was a good use of
their time.
“Older people can
sometimes decide to soldier on through illness, which can then lead to more
serious health problems,” a spokesman said. . . .
But Stokes-Lampard
added that GPs needed to have less pressurised schedules so that they had
enough “time to care” for socially isolated patients.
Other research by
the Campaign to End Loneliness found that 52% of lonely people miss being
together with someone, 51% miss laughing with someone and 46% miss not having a hug. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2017/oct/12/loneliness-as-bad-for-health-as-long-term-illness-says-gps-chief
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In my story my aim is to highlight how loneliness is an everyday experience for many and to reflect on how small kindnesses can make a difference. My intention is NOT to suggest that such acts should replace political change. For as we increasingly know austerity isn't working:
https://ounews.co/arts-social-sciences/society-politics/austerity-isnt-working-everyone-especially-women/
https://www.pcs.org.uk/sites/default/files/site_assets/pcs_people/2017/PCSPeople_issue2_2017.pdf
http://www.politics.co.uk/comment-analysis/2017/02/13/2017-the-year-the-full-effects-of-austerity-are-felt
The story begins thus:
Kind Hearts and
Brunettes
Since Lou’s death, twelve long years ago, Mick has
lived alone. Each other’s first love they hadn't spent a night apart for more
than four decades when she died. He feels her loss keenly; still. The
children keep in touch but the contact is somewhat sporadic. They all three
live far away with their respective families and Mick sees them only on high
days and holidays and not always then. They’re busy after all. Even when they
do meet up it’s rare that the whole clan, which includes seven grandchildren,
all get together. Mick wouldn’t admit it to any of his loved ones, or indeed
anyone else, but he is lonely a lot of the time. On occasion he weeps a little
and has thought about telling his doctor about this out of character behaviour.
But not wanting to waste her time he keeps it to himself. . . .
If you would like to read more - it's not very long - please go to: https://www.abctales.com/story/gletherby/kind-hearts-and-brunettes
If you would like to read more - it's not very long - please go to: https://www.abctales.com/story/gletherby/kind-hearts-and-brunettes
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